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Oxytocin, the so-called “cuddle hormone”, a chemical that helps mothers bond with their babies, can dramatically improve male sexual performance, producing results on a par with Viagra, researchers have found.

One of the scientists behind the discovery and development of Viagra was so impressed that he described an oxytocin-based treatment as having “blockbuster potential”.

Oxytocin is a hormone naturally made in the body in both men and women, and is involved in sex, sexual attraction, trust and confidence.

Extra doses of the “cuddle chemical” are released into a mother’s blood during labor – triggering the production of breast milk – and flood the brain during breastfeeding, helping mother and baby bond.

Oxytocin has recently been shown to make men more sensitive and in tune with others’ feelings, but its effects on the male physique were unknown until now.

Researchers in California published a paper on the hormone’s effects after giving it to a married father of three who suffered from attention deficit disorder and had difficulty in maintaining social relationships.

His relationship with his wife was also in difficulties, and conventional drugs either were not suitable or had unwanted side-effects.

Spraying the hormone up his nose twice a day did little to help his social phobia but did wonders for his love life, the Journal of Sexual Medicine reports.

His libido went from “very weak” to “somewhat strong”, his sexual arousal from “somewhat difficult” to “somewhat easy” and the act itself was easier to perform and more satisfying.

The spray also produced emotional benefits. The man said he found it easier to be affectionate towards his wife, while she said he wanted to be closer to her and was more tactile.

But not all oxytocin effects may be quite so welcome.

The man, who is identified only as Mr. B, also hugged a work colleague in a “very out of character” way. At the time the paper was written, the man had not experienced any other side-effects, despite using the oxytocin spray twice a day for several months.

Oxytocin, the so-called “cuddle hormone” can dramatically improve male sexual performance, producing results on a par with Viagra

Oxytocin, the so-called “cuddle hormone” can dramatically improve male sexual performance, producing results on a par with Viagra

However, the positive effects vanished if he stopped using the spray.

The University of California researchers said the improvements were “in keeping” with those of Viagra.

They concluded: “These findings support trials directly examining the use of oxytocin to treat problems in this vital aspect of human function, especially in the context of stable, loving relationships.”

Others said that as Viagra does not work in all cases, there is a great medical need for a new drug.

Dr. Mike Wyllie, one of the team of scientists that discovered and developed Viagra for pharmaceutical giant Pfizer, said that for some men who have had surgery, the little blue pills can work in as few as 10% of cases.

With sales of Viagra and similar pills reaching almost $4 billion year worldwide, there are billions to be made.

Dr. Mike Wyllie said that a drug based on oxytocin could have “blockbuster potential”.

However, he warned that drug watchdogs may be cautious about approving a medicine that has emotional as well as physical effects.

 

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Actor Matt Bomer has revealed he is gay and his partner is publicist Simon Halls.

Matt Bomer, 34, came out quietly at the weekend after accepting an award at Steve Chase Humanitarian Awards in California on Saturday.

White Collar actor has dodged questions in the past about his orientation – despite speculation about his sexuality.

While appearing at the Steve Chase Humanitarian Awards on Saturday – where he was honored with New Generation Arts and Activism Award for his activism against HIV/ AIDs – Matt Bomer thanked his partner, Hollywood publicist Simon Halls.

Matt Bomer also made reference to their three children in his speech, saying: “I’d really especially like to thank my beautiful family: Simon, Kit, Walker, Henry.

“Thank you for teaching me what unconditional love is. You will always be my proudest accomplishment.”

Actor Matt Bomer has revealed he is gay and his partner is publicist Simon Halls

Actor Matt Bomer has revealed he is gay and his partner is publicist Simon Halls

Although Matt Bomer has not spoken about his family life in detail, three-year-old twins Walker and Henry are believed to be the sons of Simon Halls while five-year-old Kit is understood to be from a previous relationship of Bomer’s.

The actor only revealed he had children last March while co-hosting the Today Show.

When questioned about his love life during a 2010 interview with Details magazine, Matt Bomer said: “I don’t care about [rumors] at all. I’m completely happy and fulfilled in my personal life.”

Matt Bomer is set to appear in the upcoming stripper movie Steven Soderbergh-directed movie Magic Mike, alongside Channing Tatum and Alex Pettyfer.

He will also soon be seen in the film adaptation of Larry Kramer’s HIV/ AIDs play The Normal Heart.

Matt Bomer said of the movie at the awards show: “My world has really been rocked by doing research for Normal Heart, just in terms of the history of HIV and AIDS.”

“And so I’m very proud to receive this award from an organization that is at the forefront of carrying the torch into a very, very bright future.”